As the time goes by, you are going to realize that you are becoming the person that you are meant to be.
Here, we are going to present you the seven uncomfortable signs which will show you the transformation.
The more mature you are, the more you can handle everything by yourself, and it feels like you do not want to be the burden of anyone. You have even always said things like, “I’ve got this,” to those that are sincerely willing to help you. More often than not, you also feel lonely and isolated, but you also feel proud of yourself for being strong, as well as independent at the same time.
As the time goes by, you are going to feel that you have a lot of acquaintances, but just a few friends. You will start questioning your relationships with others; you will start realizing who is the real and who is not, who wants to stay or who wants to go. You will feel disappointed, as well as guilty, and sad towards losing some of your friends that you loved, but you will be brave enough to leave the relationships which were toxic and emotionally abused your inner self.
Not just because you are selective about your friends, but it is also because you will not easily buy the bullshit of people. You have also been disappointed a lot of times by betrayals and broken promises; you also know exactly how the real world works. But, when you believe in some people, you are going to be loyal to them, and you are going to do anything to maintain that relationship.
Sometimes, it is hard for you to feel satisfied with your life; there will always be something more you would like to achieve. The same routines, as well as work, will bore you to death and you are always going to be thinking, “What is next?” which will make you always want to strive more. Furthermore, your life is “boring” as you have less unnecessary drama in your life – which is something to be proud of.
More often than not, you have the feeling that 24 hours a day are not enough for you. You barely have time to sleep, and you always find yourself in busy situations. It is a struggle for you to spare time for yourself, as well as for your loved ones. You are determined to be successful in life.
It is very easy for you to blame yourself for any mistakes which you have made in the past. You acknowledge that you have made some bad decisions and that sometimes you want just everything to go back to how it was before. But, then you realize that regret is going to take you nowhere, and the only thing which you can do is not to repeat the same mistakes which you have already done.
You seem to be bold and strong, but most of the time you feel incredibly insecure about your own life. You have always questioned yourself, regarding what you need in life and what is your life purpose. You do not exactly know how life is supposed to be, just as many unexpected things happen.
But, despite all of the confusions and fears, everything is going to happen according to your time zone.
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